拔苗助长

⒈  即揠苗助长，嫌禾苗长得慢而用手向上提，以助其生长。比喻不顾事物发展的客观规律，强求速成，反而把事情搞坏。

例他还是个孩子呀，可别拔苗助长哟！

英pull up the rice shoots with the intention of helping them to grow; try to help the shoots grow by pulling them upward;